Success in an interview isn't just luck, but the result of meticulous preparation and deliberate actions.
This simple idea turns out to be quite fresh, non-trivial, and not everyone agrees with it. Let's call them skeptics.
These stubborn skeptics continue to believe that the world owes them something, and that their personal exceptionality guarantees them success. But the reality is that such people are inevitably doomed to remain losers.
A loser is not just someone who experiences failures. It's someone who systematically LOSES everything that could make their life better: opportunities, friends, prospects, success.
They LOSE them because they are not ready to change, to learn, to acknowledge their mistakes, and to work on themselves.
A loser is a person who stands still, indulging in their imagined greatness, while other people move forward, improve themselves, and achieve their goals.
Some may object that success is not everything.
Yes, success is not the only value, but it's important to understand that it often measures how much a person realizes their potential.
Success is not just material achievements; it's the ability to achieve goals, to realize one's talents and abilities, and to make a contribution.
And if a person does not strive for success, they risk missing their opportunities and living a life without fulfilling their potential.
The refusal to strive for success is often disguised under the philosophy of "I'm fine as it is," but behind this lies a fear of change, a fear of difficulties, and a fear of facing reality.
To stop being a loser, one must realize that the world owes nothing to anyone and start making real efforts.
These efforts should be directed towards personal development, the readiness to acknowledge mistakes, and the ability to adapt to new challenges.
Only through changing oneself, through hard work and the desire to improve, can a person break out of the vicious cycle of failures and achieve real success.